Sunday, June 5, 2016
Two weeks ago I decided to go shopping with my hearing dog. I have him because I am deaf and he assists me to sounds I can't hear. We went in through Rocky's Big City Games & Sports Bar at the Eastern Hills Mall. First thing I noticed was there was a Security Guard sleeping in a chair. There was people there but nobody was doing anything about it.
We went into a few stores with no issues. Then all of a sudden one of the ladies denied my service dog in one of them. I decided to find a Security Guard to ask if the lady had any rights doing that. By law service animals are allowed in public places. But I thought it would be best to let someone else handle it there.
So I went back into Rocky's to get help. Except the same Security Guard was fast assleep in the chair. She has been sleeping over an hour. So I went to find the Security Guard's office at the end of the Food Court Area. There was nobody at that desk. There was a number in there for us to call in case we need to get ahold of one. But being hearing impaired I'm unable to hear on a regular phone. And there was no number for texting one.
So after that I went to the center of the mall and I saw a woman in a uniform with a walkie talkie. So I thought that's it, let me ask her a question. So I tried walking up to her with my dog and she ran the other way in a hurry. Feeling disappointed from failure from finding someone to help I stopped at the Customer Service Counter. There I made a complaint about the Security Guard that has slept over an hour at Rocky's. Then I also told them there was noone in the main office.
So the lady there tried making some calls. Even she was unable to get in contact of any security guard for me. I waited for 25 minutes there as she kept trying to call one over. With no luck, I told her thank you but to just let it go. She said she would report it to the manager. It wasn't worth wasting my time on this so I left.
I sure hope I never have to go through something like this again.
Tuesday, December 15, 2015
For years I have been going to the same exact doctor's office for check ups. This is over at the Highgate Medical Group office. Why I stay there is because they have done a good job. It's in a convenient location and the wait is never long. Not having to drive far when I need to go is a big plus for me.
Besides all that they gave me no issues with my bringing my hearing dog to my appointments. I have him because I am deaf. And he helps to notify me of sounds I can't hear. So that means a lot to me as well. But there is one big problem at this place.
And that is they don't have any email service for their deaf customers. Neither can they text me of my future appointments. All they can do is call me on a phone to communicate with me. But that does me no good because of my hearing loss. And sometimes they leave messages on my voice mail.
And that isn't good either because I can't always understand those messages. But due to having CaptionCall it takes care of some of these issues. I would suggest that my doctor's office set up a service to use for contacting their deaf customers like me.
That is set up an email service. And allow them to text their deaf customers. And do whatever else to communicate properly with those who can't hear. This is only fair for the deaf.
Sunday, November 22, 2015
He loves to sleep on blankets or on pillows. So I make sure I have plenty of those out for him. I received him from the International Hearing Dog Inc. about two years ago. A trainer from I.H.D.I. flew Douglas out here to N.Y. on a plane. Then he helped teach me how to train him.
We worked on having the dog notify me of a number of sounds in my home. And that went well. Whenever I go shopping he goes in the stores with me. Anyway I have to get back to the kitchen and finish cooking my dinner.
Saturday, September 19, 2015
It is needless to say about the importance of singing and talking to a baby. A little fellow cannot talk as of yet to be able to respond. But just like “responding” to the facial expressions of parents, give a smile back or laugh at parents making funny faces, they are able to determine singing as another way of “talk”, conveying peace, warmness, positiveness, niceness. This is a therapy of sorts. This is why it is easy to put babies to sleep by singing them a song together with rocking and distracting with toys.
It is impossible to teach a baby sign language due to its tender age but while singing to a baby, we convey positive emotions; then again, we smile and/or make funny faces. In addition, you do not stand still but accompany your singing with gestures entertaining the baby. It does not mean that parents should give up on sign language so far and wait until their baby grows older. Parents should keep going and teach their deaf baby just like a baby with hearing.
There is a hypothesis, that singing is the first lesson of language you give to your child. It will be too much to put headphones on a baby. It may cause damage to the ear membrane. Singing is the best way to introduce your baby to the music. When singing you regulate the volume of your voice. And you will sing good melodies only. So that will have a good effect and give positive vibes only on your baby. Moreover, it does not matter if you think you have no voice. Your baby will definitely like it because you are the closest person.
Start singing when you carry your baby in your tummy. Speaking of which, this is probably why they say that babies love the voice of a mother first. This is the first thing they recognize. When they do not hear, they feel it on the unconscious level. Of course, you could record the music for your baby you could sing instead but keep in mind that there is no recorder able to show emotions while playing like your face would.
It is an interaction, which you share with your baby. Therefore, do not put it on a technical device “shoulders”. Just make sure you sit or stand somewhere in front of your baby just so it could see you, observe your mimic and gestures and both of you will benefit from it enjoying your moments together. They are priceless no matter what.
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Thursday, December 25, 2014
Just recently I flew home on Delta Airlines from Detroit on Christmas. Before I left I had notified the airlines that I was deaf. But once I boarded the plane it was all forgotten. Again I didn't understand a word being said on the microphone. This time I called the flight attendant over and we had a talk. I told her that I didn't understand a word she said during the safety demonstration. She said just follow the book.
Well I told her that is not the only issue. There were a lot of announcements being made over the microphone. And not all of them was about the safety demonstration. And I explained to her that deaf people have a rights to know every word that was said on the plane. We shouldn't be left out and ignored when announcements are being made.
She apologized about what I was going through. Though she didn't have to do that. I explained to her if they would close caption every announcement for the deaf passengers it would be more fair. Or they could have an interpreter on the plane when there's a deaf passenger. I have never been offered either option in forty years.
Friday, September 5, 2014
Thursday, July 24, 2014
Good afternoon everyone. My summer has been going great. Just recently I took my hearing dog Douglas to Ohio with me. We went out to eat at some restaurants and he came with us. While he was there, he was quiet and behaved pretty good. He never barked in the restaurants. Now he responds automatically to the doorbell, phone, alarm clock and smoke alarm. When I’m not wearing my hearing aids I can’t hear a thing. So it is very helpful that he is here to notify me of those sounds.
Tuesday, June 3, 2014
As you know I haven't been here for a while. Things are going well, and I have been very busy. Of course I continued to write more about life with my hearing dog. He's a great dog to have. Douglas is very sweet and lovable. Right now I'm still in the second month of training him. So far he is doing well at notifying me of some sounds I can't hear at home.
Wednesday, April 9, 2014
I was accepted to get a hearing dog from the International Hearing Dog Inc.a while ago. Finally the trainer, Robert Cooley from there flew Douglas down from Colorado. He is in town for a few days to teach me how to train the dog. Today we worked on training Douglas to alert me to the sounds of the doorbell ringing, knocking and a smoke detector beeping. This dog is very sweet and lovable. I am very excited to finally have a hearing dog in my life. It hasn't been easier being deaf. He will help to make my life better.
You can read all about this at:
Douglas Is Here With Me Now
Second Day Of Training Douglas